We are a pretty tight family. I don’t mean “tight” like “cool” or “totes awesome.” I mean “tight” like “we spend a lot of time together.” I sense it won’t always be this way. The children will inevitably grow up and have a say in what we do together. Maybe they’ll grow up a little and realize that I’m a weirdy, but until they do, I’m obliged to make them spend time with each other and with me and with their Daddy.
The problem I’m having is this: we watch too many movies. I can’t say that we watch too much TV because we don’t have cable or satellite or anything like unto it. But DVDs? We have so many of those that it doesn’t matter. Basically, that’s how we spend the majority of our time together. We watch DVDs.
I want to branch out more. I mean, I do more than just watch TV with my kids. I teach preschool to my kids from home and we do ALL sorts of fun stuff together! We mix play dough colored red and yellow together and make orange. We make slime out of cornstarch, water, and baking soda. We make recycled crayons and we stretch and we read books! Yesterday we didn’t have preschool, but we raked leaves and played with the neighbor’s dog and made cookies and took a trip to the gas station for a treat.
BUT Dad’s not here for those things. And by the time Dad IS here, Mom’s too exhausted to do anything but cook dinner for us to eat together and then pick a movie for us all to watch after family prayers.
I want ideas. I want your ideas.
What do you do as an entire family unit? My husband wants us all to spend the day together tomorrow, bonding.
He has his own ideas for us. He wants me to make a picnic lunch, which I’m happy to do. But then what?
Hit me with your best shot. My creativity is tired.